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Amy Shafer

Therapist · California

Amy Shafer, LCSW

Experienced LCSW focusing on life transitions and loss

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  • 30 years experience
  • Adult and geriatric focus
  • Practical coping skills

About Amy

Amy Shafer is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with three decades of practice in California. She brings a practical, person-focused approach to common problems like anxiety, depression, grief, and stress. Amy frames therapy as teamwork and focuses on what helps people move forward in daily life.

She uses methods drawn from acceptance and commitment therapy, cognitive behavioral techniques, emotionally-focused work, mindfulness, and client-centered care. These approaches are applied to concerns such as relationships, intimacy, addiction, sleep problems, and parenting strain. She also addresses chronic illness, cancer, caregiver stress, and aging-related issues.

Amy has worked across many settings and with many age groups. In recent years she has concentrated on adult and geriatric needs, including loss, trauma, family conflict, and life-stage transitions. That variety has shaped a flexible style and a broad toolkit she offers to clients.

In sessions Amy helps people identify practical steps, learn coping skills, and rethink unhelpful patterns. She blends short-term problem solving with work on deeper relationship and interpersonal issues when needed. The emphasis is on straightforward, usable strategies rather than jargon.

People who want steady guidance through change or grief will find an experienced clinician who aims to listen, clarify goals, and suggest manageable options. Amy encourages questions and helps each person shape a plan that fits their life.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online work

Amy uses acceptance and commitment therapy and cognitive behavioral approaches that adapt well to online conversations. ACT focuses on clarifying personal values and taking committed steps toward them while accepting difficult thoughts and feelings; it can help with persistent anxiety, depression, and life transitions. Cognitive behavioral therapy looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and teaches concrete skills for changing unhelpful patterns, which is useful for stress, sleep problems, and coping with chronic illness.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Amy will discuss goals, preferences, and how you prefer to work, then tailor methods so they fit your situation. That shared planning helps ensure the methods used match what you want to change and how you like to learn.

Confirm the current session options before booking so you know what formats are available. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also supports continuing care during life transitions and when mobility or caregiving limits make in-person visits difficult, while letting the therapist and client focus on practical coping skills and relationship patterns that matter most.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Amy Shafer address?

Amy works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief and loss, self-esteem issues, and coping with life changes. Other focus areas include relationship and family conflict, trauma and abuse, chronic pain and illness, caregiving stress, and intimacy-related issues.

What is her overall therapeutic style?

Her style blends acceptance and commitment therapy, cognitive behavioral techniques, emotionally-focused approaches, mindfulness, and client-centered care. Sessions aim to be practical and collaborative, with steps people can use between meetings.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 30 years of experience working in a variety of settings and with many age groups. Recent work has emphasized adult and geriatric concerns, family systems, trauma, and loss.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, licensed in California. Her education includes degrees in psychology, human development, and a Master of Social Work.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Specific pricing is provided when matching and scheduling.

What should I do to begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability. That process will let you set up an initial session and discuss goals.

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