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Heather McQuay

Therapist · Maryland

Heather McQuay, LCSW-C

Experienced LCSW-C guiding practical change

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  • Person-centered care
  • Practical skills
  • Trauma-informed focus

About Heather

Heather McQuay is a Licensed Certified Social Worker-Clinical (LCSW-C) practicing in Maryland with two decades of experience in human services and more than ten years as a licensed therapist. She has worked with people coping with anxiety, depression, grief, mood disorders, and trauma from both childhood and adulthood. Her background includes supporting clients facing chronic health concerns, caregiving stress, and the emotional fallout from life changes.

Heather uses a person-centered style that aims to help people feel heard and respected. She works together with each client to set clear, manageable goals. Sessions focus on practical steps and skills that fit into daily life rather than abstract theory.

Her approach draws on cognitive behavioral tools and acceptance-based practices to address unhelpful thoughts and unwanted emotions. She also uses elements of motivational interviewing and strength-based work to encourage small, sustainable changes. When appropriate, she introduces techniques from dialectical behavior therapy to help with emotional regulation and distress tolerance.

Clients who find her approach helpful are people seeking down-to-earth guidance for stress, relationships, parenting challenges, or coping with chronic pain and illness. Heather often supports people dealing with career strain, compassion fatigue, ADHD, and attachment concerns. Her sessions aim to build skills and clarity one step at a time.

To begin, she asks people to share what matters most to them and then tailors sessions to those priorities. Heather emphasizes collaboration, practical tools, and steady progress toward the goals each person sets.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Maryland

Languages

English

How Heather’s Approaches Fit Online Care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then choose actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety, chronic health challenges, and life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thought patterns and practicing different responses, which helps reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety and improve day-to-day functioning. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers concrete skills for managing intense emotions and improving relationships, making it helpful when stress leads to frequent mood swings or crisis-level reactivity.

Heather treats finding the right approach as a team effort. She will talk with each person about their goals and preferences, and then try methods that fit those needs. If a technique does not feel helpful, she adjusts the plan so the work stays relevant and doable.

Practical benefits of online therapy include easier fitting of sessions into a busy week and fewer barriers to attending regularly. The biography does not list specific session formats here, so confirm the available options before booking to know which formats are offered. Online work can make it simpler to maintain momentum while juggling caregiving, medical appointments, or work commitments, and sessions can focus on skills you can apply between meetings.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Heather commonly help with?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, parenting strain, relationship and communication problems, chronic pain and illness, and career-related stress.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is person-centered and collaborative, focusing on listening first and then building practical goals and skills tailored to each person.

What is her background and experience?

Heather has over 20 years in human services and more than a decade as a licensed therapist working with mood disorders, trauma, and long-term caregiving issues.

What credentials and location are listed for Heather?

She holds LCSW-C (Licensed Certified Social Worker-Clinical) in Maryland and practices there.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English only and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified here; please confirm current session options before booking to make sure they meet your needs.

How does cost work for sessions with Heather?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with her?

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