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Itay Lahav

Therapist · Australia

Itay Lahav, PACFA

Calm, reflective therapy for complex challenges

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  • Trauma and attachment
  • Stress and anxiety
  • Short or long term

About Itay

Itay Lahav is a clinical practitioner with 22 years of experience who helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, sleep problems and the effects of trauma and abuse. She works with issues related to attachment, abandonment and personality difficulties, and supports people living with chronic pain, illness or disability. Her name appears up front so readers know who they will be reading about.

Itay draws on psychodynamic ideas to look at patterns that repeat in a person’s life. She also uses attachment-based and client-centred approaches to make sessions focused and compassionate. That mix lets her help people address symptoms and the life stories behind them.

Sessions can be brief and goal-focused or longer and more exploratory, depending on what a person needs. In short-term work she concentrates on practical ways to reduce distress and improve daily functioning. In longer-term work she helps people understand deep-rooted patterns and the body-mind connections that affect wellbeing.

She emphasises the therapy relationship as the foundation for change. People can expect a calm, thoughtful space to talk things through and try different ways of coping. The therapist pays attention to safety and to pacing the work so it feels manageable.

Itay is PACFA credentialled, works in Australia and conducts therapy in English. She aims to help people make sense of their experience and find realistic steps forward, whether the focus is recovery from trauma, improving sleep, or easing ongoing anxiety.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSleeping disordersDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Credentials

PACFA · Australia

Languages

English

How these approaches translate to online therapy

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships shape current connections. Online work using this approach looks at patterns in relationships and supports people to build safer ways of relating and managing anxiety around closeness.

Psychodynamic therapy pays attention to recurring life patterns and the stories people bring. In an online setting it helps uncover long-standing themes that affect mood, sleep and relationships and gives space to reflect on how past experiences shape present behaviour.

Finding the right approach is part of the work and is decided together. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and practical needs, and recommend whether brief, focused sessions or deeper, longer-term work is the better starting point.

This profile does not list specific session formats, so please confirm current online options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time and allow for a quieter break during the day. It can also allow for shorter check-ins when needed or longer exploratory sessions when there is time to go deeper. Appropriately qualified therapists can adapt their methods to suit what’s practical and helpful for each person.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, sleep problems, relationship issues and the effects of trauma and abuse, and works with related areas such as attachment and chronic illness.

How would you describe the therapy style here?

The approach combines psychodynamic, attachment-based and client-centred methods to explore patterns and offer practical coping strategies.

How much clinical experience does the therapist have?

There are 22 years of professional experience working across a range of mental health difficulties and personality-related concerns.

What credentials and location are on record?

The therapist is PACFA credentialled and practises in Australia.

In what languages are sessions available?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with this therapist?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are payments and costs handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What is the process to begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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