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Paula Appleton

Therapist · United Kingdom

Paula Appleton, BACP, NCPS

Experienced integrative counsellor for life challenges

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  • Integrative therapy
  • Deaf friendly
  • Practical steps

About Paula

Paula Appleton is a counsellor with 14 years of experience based in the United Kingdom. She holds BACP and NCPS credentials and sees people who are navigating difficult life moments. Paula aims to make sessions straightforward and practical so people can start making small changes sooner.

Paula uses an integrative approach, blending methods to match each person's needs rather than sticking to one fixed style. She draws on approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-Based work, and adapts techniques as conversations progress. This means sessions can focus on thoughts, feelings, behaviours or relationships depending on what the client needs that week.

She supports people with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addiction, grief, parenting strain, illness and chronic pain, and issues around identity and relationships. Paula also lists work with ADHD, compassion fatigue and career-related stress among her areas of focus. Her experience includes supporting people through abandonment and adoption-related matters, and age-related concerns.

Paula is experienced in working with Deaf and hard of hearing clients. She can use Signed Supported English or British Sign Language at an advanced level for people who need that communication style. Sessions are delivered in English and American Sign Language where appropriate.

Her approach is to listen first, then agree clear goals and practical steps. She encourages people to notice what helps them cope and to build on those strengths between sessions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom, NCPS · United Kingdom

Languages

English, American Sign Language

How therapeutic approaches translate to online counselling

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice thoughts and feelings without getting tangled up in them, then choose actions that match their values; it can help with anxiety, depression and coping with long-term illness. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and testing new behaviours; it is often used for anxiety, low mood and sleep problems. Attachment-Based work looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and can be useful for intimacy issues, grief and relationship difficulties.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options with the client and agree a plan based on their needs, goals and preferences. This is a collaborative process and the chosen methods can change as progress is made.

The original profile does not list specific online formats, so please confirm available session types before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy day, cut travel time and allow quieter check-ins when people have limited time. It can also make it simpler to include Signed Supported English or British Sign Language where needed. Talk with the therapist about practical arrangements and how sessions can be scheduled to fit everyday life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of difficulties does Paula support?

She works with a wide range of concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addiction, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, eating and sleeping problems, parenting strain, long-term illness and chronic pain, and identity-related matters including LGBT concerns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Paula uses an integrative, person-focused style that blends practical techniques with reflective work. Sessions often include talking through problems, setting small goals and practising new ways of coping between meetings.

How many years of experience does she have?

She has 14 years of counselling experience working across many presenting issues and client needs.

Which credentials and region apply to this counsellor?

Paula holds BACP and NCPS credentials and practices from the United Kingdom.

Which languages can sessions be held in?

Sessions are offered in English and American Sign Language, and she can use Signed Supported English or British Sign Language at an advanced level to support Deaf and hard of hearing clients.

What session formats are available?

The original profile does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How are costs and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with Paula?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling according to the therapist's availability.

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