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Richard Whitenstall

Therapist · United Kingdom

Richard Whitenstall, BACP

Compassionate counsellor for practical change

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  • Client-centred
  • CBT informed
  • Goal focused

About Richard

Richard Whitenstall BACP is a counsellor from the United Kingdom with 11 years of experience in mental health work. He began placements in 2013 and later set up his own practice, Get There Counselling, in 2021. He has also worked with international clients since 2023. Richard combines practical support with a calm, direct manner to help people handle difficult moments.

He has a background supporting LGBT young people at risk of exploitation and domestic abuse, and has run counselling services for charities. That practical charity work informs how he talks about issues such as anxiety, depression, stress and grief. He also co-authored a book on men’s mental health and produces a podcast that opens conversations about personal growth.

In sessions he uses a client-centred way of working. This means the conversation follows what matters most to the person seeking help. He also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Solution-Focused ideas to shape short-term goals and practical steps.

Richard makes space for topics often left out of mainstream therapy, including relationship patterns, intimacy and non-traditional sexual cultures. He is used to helping people manage life changes, chronic pain and long-term health challenges. Sessions look at what can be changed and how to move toward that.

He aims to work at a pace set by each person. Together they set clear, manageable goals and test small changes between sessions. The emphasis is on straightforward talk and realistic plans that fit everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersCareer difficultiesDepressionADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSMen's issuesPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSex addictionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Solution-Focused Therapy

Experience

11+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Richard’s approaches work for online therapy

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on following the person’s lead and building a trusting, non-judgemental conversation. It helps when someone needs a space to talk things through and decide what matters most to them. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions link together and uses practical exercises to change unhelpful patterns; this is often useful for anxiety, depression and sleep problems. Solution-Focused Therapy emphasises clear, short-term goals and small changes that can be tested between sessions, making it suitable when someone wants rapid, practical progress.

Deciding which approach to use is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the person about their needs, hopes and preferences and then agree on an approach together. That collaborative decision can change as the work develops, and methods can be combined to suit individual goals.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm the available options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions around work, medical appointments or caregiving, and it can reduce travel time. It also allows for shorter check-ins or longer sessions depending on what fits the person’s week. Many people find remote sessions help maintain continuity of care when life is busy or when managing ongoing health challenges.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Richard help with?

He works with a broad range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, grief and relationship difficulties. He also supports people with issues such as addiction, self-harm, gender dysphoria and living with chronic illness.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

Sessions are client-centred and practical, focusing on what the client wants to change. He draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Solution-Focused ideas to set goals and try small experiments between sessions.

How long has he worked in counselling?

He has 11 years of experience in mental health roles, including charity placements and running services, and founded his private practice in 2021.

Where is he based and what credentials does he hold?

He is based in the United Kingdom and holds BACP, which is shown as his listed credential.

Can people who don’t live in the UK work with him?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so please confirm current options with the service before booking.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time according to the service terms.

What should I do to start a course of therapy?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

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